Don’t you just love when you try to be safe and get your ears stretched by a professional but they end up ripping and blowing out your ear? I sure do.
Ouch! I definitely would NOT be going back there! I’d try leaving your plugs out for a LONG time and when everything’s all nice and healed, start massaging, and then insert plugs at a smaller size.
The only downsize to professional stretching is that they can’t tell if you’re in pain or not. If you stretch yourself and feel pain, you can stop straight away, whereas the piercer will not be aware of what you’re feeling, which can lead to results like this.